Problems with dating a divorced woman university of southampton dating
I whole heartedly agree men (and women) should pay child support and such. When I married K I thought it was great that he not only had his kids all the time, but he NEVER had any problems handing money over for thier needs and care.
But When I started seeing that she wasnt contributing her share to the kids then using them for more..... The kids were wearing grandmas hand me downs and no coats but she was going on ALOT of trips with friends.
Dating a divorced man is not like dating a man who has never been married before.
Many women knowingly date these men and then get upset when he does not have the money or the time to spend on them.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.
Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.
It irks me when women date a divorced man and then complain that their boyfriend is paying too much child support and alimony. You have to expect that if your boyfriend has an ex-wife and kids, he must fulfill his financial and parental obligations to his first family.When they tell you that they don’t want these things they are lying! Early 40’s with small children – although these women are closer to your age (not really) they are at a completely different stage.They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner.We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Early 30’s and never been married – these women must have “daddy issues”.Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.